FORMULAS FOR PARENTS TO TACKLE THE
                   IMPOSSIBLE CHILD !!

Ahoy !! Calling all distressed parents to come aboard and sail through calm waters...
Are you struggling to achieve the impossible??
Is your child stubborn and aggressive?? Are your kids nauseously annoying ?? No choice, but to bear up with tantrums??
Wait a while....don't go overboard in haste !!
Let's find solutions to many struggles with parents and their siblings.

1. UNDERSTANDING YOUR KID IS VITAL...
     
    These days, kids are smarter than you think.
     You just cannot make out what's working
     in their mind. They know how to get their
     way !! The moment a child is born, it shrieks
     when it's  hungry and the mother is on her
      toes to fulfil the child. Similarly, when the
      toddler is wet or having a cholic pain, it
      gets promt attention. From birth, they are
      ready to make their parents dance!! The
      scene is different when they grow up. Here
      is the need to UNDERSTAND YOUR CHILD.
      DON'T JUST LISTEN TO THEIR TANTRUM.
      Reason out with them. Be gentle, and with
      understanding the core issue, solve the
      problem where the situation for both kid
      and parent is a win-win situation. Your
      ego should take a back seat .If you feel kid
      is unreasonable,  it could be the other way
      round!! If you are a parent of more than 1
      kid...try and balance between the two. If
      you pamper one kid and not the other, ask
      yourself if you are being fair!!

  2. NEVER COMPARE YOUR SIBLINGS. 

       It's  natural to be more inclined towards
       one kid, for various reasons...but, NEVER
       COMPARE THEM to each other !! Over a
       period of time, it's bound to create a lot
       of negative feelings in the kid that is side
       lined. Such a child will grow up under
       resentment and hatred. Let this not ever
       happen. Nurture your children with equal
       LOVE AND OPPORTUNITIES.

   

3. NEVER DEGRADE THEM BY NAGGING 
     ABOUT THEIR LOW EXAM RESULTS. 

     This is a very sensitive issue. This can  hit
      their morale!!! It may result in the child
      becoming very sullen  and in a deep  brain
      turmoil. HAVE A HEART AND SPARE THE
      CHILD😔💞. We too must have faced such a
       situation in our days. I remember,  failing
      meant THE END OF OUR LIFE!! We were
      to believe that it was soooo shameful and
      a slur on the  family pride !! You should
      console the child and boost their morale !!
      That's  NOT THE END. Give them another
      chance .

4. NEVER THRASH YOUR KIDS...

     This is the worst action on your part!! Not
      only will the child lose all respect for you
      but also the FEAR will force him to lie. By
       fear he or she will disassociate from the
      family. DON'T LET SUCH A SITUATION arise
      Thrashing is not going to solve problems,
      only a vacuum will be created which in the
      long run will distance the child from the
      parents. Your consoling the child will go a
      long  way to a strong bond with family.

5. DON'T  OVERLOAD THEIR BAGS.

     It's pathetic to see tiny kids going to school
     with bags bigger than their size!! This can
     stunt their growth and harm their posture.
     The KNEE CRUSHING and BACK BREAKING
      bags should be banned!! Let them carry few
      books required for the day. I have always
      wondered by the parents or teachers don't
      resolve this issue.

   My sincere advice to parents is  NEVER GIVE
   UP...No child is born a ruffian, only you can
   train the kids to grow up as confident, honest
   responsible adults!! It's YOU who has to
   guide them so they evolve as successful
   beings in their respective fields. Don't  force
   decisions on them. Recognise the talent in
   them and give them the support and your
   time. Time will take them to GREAT HEIGHTS
 
   The saying goes "SPARE THE ROD AND 
   SPOIL THE CHILD"...follow this NO MORE.
   It should  be ..."SPARE THE ROD AND 
   BOOST YOUR CHILD"..Yeah!!..try it out. 

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